Explaining the EPR-Bell 'Instant' Communication

The Spherical Wave Structure of Matter, particularly the behaviour of the In and Out Waves, is able to resolve this puzzle so that the appearance of instant communication is understood and yet neither Albert Einstein nor QM need be wrong. In order to show this, it is necessary to carefully look at the detailed process of exchanging energy between two atoms, by the action of the IN/OUT waves of both atoms. Remember that for resonant coupling it is necessary for the In and Out Waves of both electrons to interact with one another. The passage of both In-Waves through both Wave-Centers precedes the actual frequency shifts of the source and detector. A means to detect this first passage event is not a capability of the usual photo-detector apparatus and remains totally unnoticed. But the In-Waves are symmetrical counterparts of the Out-Waves and carry the information of their polarization state between parts of the experimental apparatus before the Out-Waves cause a departing photon event. The IN-waves travel with the speed of light so there is no violation of relativity.
At this point you may be inclined to disbelieve the reality of the In-Wave. But there is other evidence for it. Remember, it explains the de Broglie wavelength and thereby QM. It is necessary to explain the relativistic mass increase of a moving object or the symmetry in its direction of motion. It is responsible for the finite force of the SR electron at its center. Are all of these merely coincidence? Especially, it is the combination of In and Out Waves which explains these laws, not just the In-Waves. If you believe in one you are forced to believe in the other.
(Note added by Haselhurst - In fact without In-Waves there can be no Out-Waves, as the Out-Waves are simply the In-Waves after they have propagated In and Out through the Wave-Center. Thus effectively Wolff is saying that the electrons in the experiment are already interconnected with one another, and hence are already 'aware' of one another's resonant state and polarization, before the paired photons are emitted. It is this subtle interconnection of Matter that explains the apparent conflict of the EPR experiment.) Quantum-Physics